Why BDSM MISTRESS Community
If you’re a Mistress looking for a sub, or a sub looking for a local Mistress, you have come to the right place. BDSM-Mistress.com is a community of thousands of like-minded Mistresses and subs who get together for some kinky fun. We launched the community for people to share BDSM techniques and experiences and because we know how hard it is to find a Mistress, especially if your new to BDSM. Once you have joined, you can message others, have video chats, see profile pictures and arrange to meet a Mistress near you.
What is a BDSM Mistress?
We’ve all seen the movies where a Mistress is a cold hearted, seductive temptress.
What we see at the movies is wrong.
A Mistress is a female who is domineering and is dominant nature.
For us to define “what a Mistress” is, we need to look at the word ‘dominant’. Mistresses are to an extent what most people call, bossy bitches. They love be direct and in control of every aspect – that's not to say they are necessarily kinky. But most Mistresses are kinky, they do have a big toy bag, filled with some hard leather objects which are designed to make submissive butts hurt. However, there are some Mistresses who are happy to control day-to-day life with a razor wire tongue and a vicious, flesh rending wit.
Where they do get it correct in the movies is that if you don’t obey your Mistress your future will more than likely be filled with interesting punishments.
So, Mistresses are dominant, get ready to obey.
The difference between a Dominatrix and a FemDom
The BDSM-Mistress community contains many Femdoms and Dominatrix, but many people still struggle to know the difference, especially newbie subbies.
A Femdom – stands for Female Dominance, and is a woman that believes in Female Supremacy. Femdoms believe because they are female, they are superior and will live and breath every aspect of this their lives. These are women who use men for, money, gratification and advancement in status. A Femdom feel it’s the requirement of the male to provide for her wellbeing, happiness and lifestyle. Men have no value in a Femdoms life, aside from the before mentioned reasons. A FemDom can and often do, use men as adult fun slaves for gratification. Femdoms have adult fun with men.
Whereas a Dominatrix (Domme) is female that poses a Dominate role in BDSM play. The majority of Dommes do not have adult fun with their subs. Generally, a Dominatrix, doesn’t hold the same views on Female Supremacy as FemDoms does. A Dominatrix may have a relationship with a man or woman where they think of the other as an equal. Dommes may also have relationships with men or women even if they are submissive, subservient or switching. Domme’s use titles such as: Mistress, Goddess, Domina, Princess, Queen.